The blowjob is a handy tool in any sexual enthusiast’s arsenal. In fact, that’s precisely how you should think about giving a blowjob – it’s not a sprint to the end, it’s more of a slow, steady pace to climax. The first time a guy came in my mouth, I felt a surge of pride, as if I had just completed a marathon and that was the prize waiting for me at the finish line.
As both givers and receivers of head, we are intimately aware of the mechanics involved. They figure, rightly so, that there’s no better resource than a gay man to dispense advise on how to orally please another man. Straight girlfriends often ask me with the same wide-eyed mystification about tips for giving head.